Gay Marriage Montgomery County, PA
As most people know, same sex marriage in PA is still illegal in spite of the SCOTUS ruling this summer. In protest, D. Bruce Hanes, who is a Montgomery County Clerk, is straight, and has two children, started
issuing marriage licenses to same sex couples this summer.
From my earlier post:
Even though same sex marriage is still not legal in the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania, Montgomery County in PA issued marriage licenses to same sex couples today in defiance of the ban on same sex marriage. Tony and I live in Bucks County, PA, which is only a few miles from where the marriage licenses were issued, and it's s significant move for those who issued the licenses and those who obtained them.
When I wrote that post I was still under the impression I lived in a highly progressive community that stood for equality and cared about being on the right side of history. However, in recent weeks the mayor of New Hope, PA, which has a large LGBT population and is only a few miles from Montgomery County, PA, decided to refuse marriage to same sex couples based on what many legal experts say are weak legal reasons.
I posted several times about that.
Even though there are legalities involved here, sometimes it's important to be on the right side of history in order to make a change. There was a time when people of African descent were not allowed to use the same bathrooms and water fountains as white people. Clearly, Mayor Keller doesn't believe the issue of gay marriage is important enough to take a stand and challenge.
Today it will be decided whether or not Hanes acted illegally as county clerk by issuing marriage licenses to same sex couples, and many people are watching this closely.
Here's a link to a local article.
On Wednesday, Pennsylvania’s Commonwealth Court will consider whether Hanes acted illegally when he began doling out licenses to same-sex couples on July 24, one month after the U.S. Supreme Court declared part of the federal Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional. State attorneys have argued that the documents have no “value or legitimacy.” So far, Hanes has granted marriage paperwork to at least 157 gay couples.
If the court sides with Hanes, the ruling could bring same-sex marriage a step closer in Pennsylvania, the only Northeastern state that does not permit gays to marry or enter into civil unions. If the court rules in favor of the state, the marriage licenses Hanes issued could be rendered useless.
I have no idea what to predict, but I will post an update soon.
Similar things have been happening in other states, too.
This week has seen a flurry of activity supporting the freedom to marry in New Mexico. Three counties in New Mexico have been ordered by district court judges to end marriage discrimination and begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. County clerks in three additional counties have followed the lead of these rulings by issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples in their own counties. These huge steps forward in New Mexico this week bring renewed urgency to why we need the freedom to marry uniformly across the state - and, ultimately, why we need the freedom to marry nationwide.
Free Excerpt Small Town Romance Writer
Along with several other projects I've done this summer, I've also been working on the final book in the Bad Boy Billionaire series, tentatively titled, "Small Town Romance Writer." I know a lot of people will be looking for similarities of me in the book, but I never work that way and rarely ever insert anything autobiographical in my books. If and when I do this, I take bits and pieces from my life or my experiences and I embellish them to the point where they are beyond recognition. I think that's important in writing fiction, because fiction should be larger than life. Otherwise it wouldn't BE fiction.
The two main characters in this book are writers, but they are totally different writers. One writes erotic gay romance and figures out a way to make billions. The other writes literary gay fiction and he wins awards and gains prestige. The book starts out in 1990 and covers the course of their lives and their careers as authors for the next twenty years, where they experience every emotion there is from, jealousy to closure. I didn't want the book to run over 80,000 words, but it wound up being 112,000 words...about 400 pages. Here's an excerpt from the raw unedited version.
1990
When former male stripper Ethan Holmes gained admission
to The Iowa Writers’ Workshop he had
the best of intentions. And while he often bragged to people it was the oldest
and most celebrated writers’ workshop in the country, and he never failed to
mention how difficult it was to get accepted, he often wondered in private how
he would suffer through the intense academic two year residency requirement
without losing his mind.
By the end of his first year in the program the only two
things that kept him in Iowa were his best friend, Travis Lane, and a guy he’d
met over the summer, Lance Mannington.
Ethan had met Travis Lane the day he’d started the
program. At the time, Ethan hadn’t planned ahead for housing and he’d spent his
first night in Iowa in a dumpy hotel off-campus. He was from a small town on
Florida’s Gulf Coast and he’d always been able to find affordable housing as an
undergrad student there. No one had mentioned to him that affordable on-campus
housing at the University of Iowa was so scarce in September. He thought he’d
show up the day he arrived, sign a lease, and everything would fall into place
for him the way it usually did. He’d always been charmed that way, and he knew
it. Evidently, all these people had planned ahead.
On the first day of class, the other grad students all
looked and sounded so aggressive and competitive Ethan wanted to hide behind a
door. It didn’t take him long to realize this wasn’t small town Florida where
he could get away with anything by flashing a seductive smile, opening his
shirt a little, and moving his hips just the right way. When he overheard the
female students discussing feminism and rape culture, he knew casual flirting
with them wouldn’t get him anywhere. When he overheard the male students
talking about gender politics in fiction he groaned aloud and turned in the
other direction.
Then Ethan spotted a young man standing in the corner
leaning against the wall, glancing down at a thick book. He seemed to want to
remain separate from the others. There was a green canvas backpack at his feet
stuffed with books, and he seemed oblivious to his surroundings in a forced way
no one would have noticed if they weren’t paying attention to him. While he
looked at the book, his eyes kept darting up at the other students waiting to
go into class, which Ethan found interesting. The guy wasn’t even reading the
book; it could have been upside down. He was only pretending to read the book.
This unusual guy
stood about six feet tall, had a slim, lanky body, and his short, straight hair
reminded Ethan of the wheat fields he’d seen on the bus driving through Iowa.
He wore a crisp white button down shirt that day, and flat front khaki slacks
that bunched up at the hem around his brown oxfords. When his eyes went up and
he noticed Ethan staring at him, he looked down at the book so fast Ethan
didn’t even get a chance to send him a smile.
So Ethan walked over to him, with his hands in his
pockets and his head held high. He’d worn his tightest jeans that day, the ones
that made his crotch bulge. He hadn’t brought any books or materials to class
because he hadn’t unpacked any of his things yet. He leaned back against the
wall next to the nervous young man, and said, “Hey, man. I’m Ethan.” He
extended his right hand. “It’s nice to meet you.”
The young man hesitated for a moment, and then he shook
Ethan’s hand and said, “I’m Travis Lane.” He spoke with a soft, cautious tone,
as if he’d lost his voice.
But Travis didn’t hesitate to look into Ethan’s eyes,
which made Ethan feel more at ease. At least there didn’t seem to be anything
fundamentally wrong with him. “I was
wondering if you could loan me a notebook and a pen, buddy,” Ethan said. “I
just got here last night and I haven’t had time to unpack my shit yet. You
should see the shithole hotel where I’m staying. I still don’t even know where
I’m going to live yet.” He laughed and scratched the back of his head. “I guess
I should have thought about that a while ago.”
Travis sent him a look. His head jerked back a little and
he asked, “You didn’t secure housing beforehand?”
Ethan shrugged and smiled. “You know how it is, man. I
figured I’d worry about it when I got here. I’m from a small town in Florida
and it’s pretty easy to find digs where I come from.”
Travis bent down and pulled a notebook and a pen from his
overflowing backpack. He handed it to Ethan and said, “I waited a year to get
my apartment in Hawkeye Court. Around here you really have to plan ahead for
these things. Didn’t anyone tell you?”
Ethan laughed. “I probably didn’t pay attention to them.
You know how it is, man.”
“Well you’re going to have a tough time now,” Travis
said.
“Clearly,” Ethan said, taking the notebook and pen.
“Thanks for letting me borrow these, bro. I appreciate it. I probably shouldn’t
even be here in this program, but I figured I’d give it a shot since they
admitted me.”
“I don’t understand,” Travis said. “I worked hard to get accepted. I killed myself.”
“Where are you from?” Ethan asked. He could see they’d
come from two different worlds, but he wanted to make a point.
“Connecticut,” Travis said. “I went to Yale and I’ve been
planning to come here for the past four years. It was my only goal all through
undergrad school. My mom and dad are both attorneys and they wanted me to be a
lawyer but all I ever wanted to do was write. I had to get into this workshop;
otherwise they would have made me go to law school. I wouldn’t have had a
choice.”
Ethan looked at him and smiled. “I’m from a small town on
the Gulf coast of Florida. My mom’s a waitress and my dad’s a trucker, and
neither one of them graduated from high school. I worked my way through
undergrad school as a male stripper in both gay and straight strip clubs all
over Florida. And I still don’t know how I got into this workshop. I heard
about it one day last year and I figured I would apply and see what happened.
I’m still shocked they let me in.”
“Well you must be good,” Travis said. “They don’t just
let anyone into this program.”
“I guess they liked something I did,” Ethan said. He’d
always been able to write and he’d never had to work hard at it.
Although Travis didn’t seem stunned, he did tilt his head
sideways and ask, “Do you want to be a writer?”
Ethan shrugged. “I want to make a lot of money.”
Travis laughed and said, “Well you can do that stripping. You don’t need The Iowa Writers’ Workshop. If I had
your looks and your body, I might not be standing here right now myself.”
That was when Ethan knew they were going to be friends.
Though Travis looked like a tight-ass at a glance, he was far from it. Ethan
looked him up and down and said, “You could strip with that ass. You wouldn’t
starve to death. They love it when the smart looking guys pull down their
pants. And you’re cute as fuck.” He made the remark about Travis being cute to
see if he was gay. All of Ethan’s instincts told him Travis was gay but he
wanted to be certain.
Travis didn’t seem offended about the cute remark. His
face turned a pale shade of pink and he said, “Well, thanks for the compliment,
I think. But I think I’d better stick to writing. As it is, I still might
starve to death doing that. At least
that’s what my parents think will happen.” Then he stopped and hesitated for a
second. He rubbed his jaw and thought as if he was choosing his words with
caution. “I’m curious,” he said. “Are you gay? I am; just so you know.”
Ethan didn’t mind the
bluntness of that question, and he had come to terms with being gay when he was
in high school. But he liked to play games, especially with someone who asked
such a direct question without knowing anything about him. He shrugged and
said, “What if I said I don’t like labels?”
Travis lifted his eyebrows and
said, “Then I would think you are mostly likely gay and you’re not ready to
admit it aloud, or you are still lying to yourself. Your type is always like
that.”
“My type?” Ethan laughed at his innocence.
“The rough-looking, straight dude who can pass whenever
he wants to pass as straight,” Travis said. “Your type likes to hold out for a
while.”
“Well you would be wrong,” Ethan said. “As it happens, I’m
into dudes and I have no problem admitting it aloud to anyone. If anything, my
problem is that I’m into dudes a little too much. I can’t stop thinking about
anything but men.” He glanced at a young woman in the hall with long flat, dark
hair parted in the middle and he frowned. She wore a gray plaid skirt and black
ballerina slippers. She didn’t have ankles, and her legs reminded Ethan of tree
trunks. There were so many flawed people in the world he found it exasperating
sometimes. “From the way it looks, all I’m going to be doing is thinking about men, because I haven’t
seen a single man or woman yet that’s even halfway hot enough to actually fuck.”
Travis blinked. “Well thanks.”
Ethan patted him on the back. “Present company excluded,”
he said. “I should have said that you’re the only cute guy I’ve seen since I got off the bus in Iowa.”
“You’re full of shit,” Travis said.
“Sometimes,” Ethan said. “But you are hot.”
“What about beauty from within?” Travis asked. “Doesn’t
that count for something? I like to think it does.”
“That’s what your
type always says,” Ethan said.
“My type?”
“The good-hearted elitist who cares about issues and all
of humanity,” Ethan said. “You’re only fooling yourselves, and you’re the first
ones to jump into the sack with the first hot piece that comes along.”
Before Travis had a chance to reply, the other students
began filing into the classroom and Ethan turned to join them. Travis followed
him, and Ethan and Travis sat next to each other that first day. After class they went out for coffee, where
Ethan made sure he pulled Travis’s chair out on purpose. Even though they came
from completely different worlds, they balanced each other in a natural way and
finding things to talk about never seemed to be an issue. Ethan couldn’t
believe his luck once again, so on the way out of the coffee shop he asked if he
could see where Travis lived and Travis brought him to the small on-campus
apartment he’d rented.
It wasn’t much of an apartment, but the moment he walked
inside Ethan knew it was better than the shabby hotel room where he’d spent the
night. There was an open floor plan that had a living, dining, and kitchen
area. In the back, there was one medium sized bedroom with a double bed, a
closet large enough for two people, and a basic bathroom with a shower and a
tub. Although nothing was elaborate, and the gray carpets and old white
bathroom tiles had been around since the disco era, Ethan didn’t want to let
this opportunity slip away without doing something about it.
