Showing posts with label WEHO. Show all posts
Showing posts with label WEHO. Show all posts

Thursday, March 26, 2020

Gay Apps, Sex Parties, WeHo, and COVID 19; ER Doc Tells Guys To Stop Hooking Up; Gay Sex and Coronavirus; Ryan Field Books

Gay Apps, Sex Parties, WeHo, and COVID 19

Here's a piece that discusses gay hook up apps and whether or not they create a higher risk for WeHo residents with regard to COVID 19.

But what about Grindr? And Scruff, and Adam4Adam, and Growlr, and Daddyhunt, and BBRT? These are websites and apps that gay men use to connect with one another. 

They cover a lot of proverbial ground with this one, so you can read it in full, here

ER Doc Tells Guys To Stop Hooking Up

This is from a Reddit thread where a health professional who's been working closely with COVID 19 patients shared a message to gay men about staying home. 

“I’ve worked countless hours trying to protect myself and others with limited PPE [personal protection equipment] and treating patients, and seeing posts saying things about how fun the weekend was […] makes me sick!” he wrote. 

Here's a link to more. I've seen this kind of behavior everywhere. It's not just gay people. 

Gay Sex and Coronavirus

This is all about professional advice for gay men with regard to sex and passing on the COVID 19 virus. It's really very thorough and anyone who's not monogamous and who's sexually active right now should probably check it out. I learned a few things I never knew before, especially the part about doing it doggie style.  

‘The virus can be passed on through direct contact with saliva or mucus, so this would include kissing. The COVID-19 virus has also been found in the faeces of people who are infected so rimming may also be a risk for infection.

You can read it all, here.  There's a really long list I found interesting, plus they get into PrEP and people with HIV. 


 








"A wonderful story that I loved. The characters were well developed, and strong. Gus: A sweet young man. Doing something for all the wrong reasons. Craig: his boyfriend, he'll go along with anything Gus say. Henry: Gus father a no nonsense man, who's husband died last year. I enjoyed this story."

Uncertainty by [Field, Ryan]

What readers said about "Altered Parts"
"Best Gay Novel In Years. This story will stay with you and you will feel you know every character and the beauty of their home in the mountains of North Carolina."



Altered Parts by [Field, Ryan]


While the book is easily readable, it also addresses emotions stereotypes and relationships. I would have preferred it be 3 times as long and tragically most guys don't find happy endings as depicted.. but in a short book, it provides food for thought, clarity and insight.. far more and better expressed than 99% of gay fiction . I don't think it could have been done better.


Kendle's Fire by Ryan Field

Friday, February 6, 2015

SNL Rejections & Lit Agents; Gay Meccas Disappearing; Gay Man Who Never Orgasm-ed; Broad City on Anal Intercourse

SNL Rejections & Lit Agents

When I ran across this article about how Lorne Michaels regrets some of the talent he originally rejected for SNL, I couldn't help thinking about publishing, writers, books, and literary agents. And Michaels did, indeed, reject a few people who went on to become successful in spite of the rejection. It's really a very honest, humble article about how gatekeepers sometimes miss talent.

He said this:

Longtime producer of "Saturday Night Live," Lorne Michaels, is opening up about the people he regrets passing on casting -- and they're big names now.

Michaels passed on casting Steve Carell, Jim Carrey, Stephen Colbert and Lisa Kudrow, and he told The Hollywood Reporter that those are the names he kicks himself over now. 


So, why did he say no? Michaels said he wasn't at Carrey's audition, but a colleague said he wouldn't like Carrey.


You can read the rest here.

What does this have to do with literary agents, you ask? Well, in over twenty years...pushing twenty five...I have seen literary agents reject talent, books, and writers that have gone on to become wildly successful. Big books like The Help have been rejected by agents and there are plenty more examples that could fill this page. It happens. Not every book or writer is going to resonate with every literary agent. It's understandable. However, I have NEVER once seen, not in all these years, a humble literary agent actually come out and admit he or she REGRETS passing on a book, or that he or she may have made a mistake.


Gay Meccas Disappearing

This article comes from a gay man in West Hollywood who is running for city council. You can read more about him at the link below.

Basically, he writes about West Hollywood being one of the last remaining gay meccas as if WeHo invented the gay mecca. I'm not being snarky about that, and I love WeHo. But he's obviously never heard of places like New Hope, PA, Provincetown, MA, and Wilton Manors, FL. Not to mention the many other places where gay people have settled and built their own communities through the years. It doesn't all begin and end with New York and LA, especially not anymore.

It's not that he's totally off base, but I think everything in this piece could be questioned. In other words, he's spot on with the problem...if this is a problem for people who have invested their money in property in WeHo...he just doesn't have a viable solution. The key word being viable.

The fact is that gay residents and the businesses they own are being priced out. Some say this trend isn’t real, that it isn’t happening, but when you look at the fact that a one-bedroom apartment at The Huxley, a new development on the east side (the less developed side of West Hollywood) now costs $2,300, it’s hard to come to that conclusion. When you look at the fact that various gay small businesses such as Block Party on Santa Monica Boulevard have had to move away or close down completely because it’s just too expensive to stay open, clearly there’s something wrong with the direction we’re going in.

Just these comments alone are interesting...compared to other parts of the country. The average residential rental here in New Hope, Bucks County, PA is about $2,500 a month. Commercial rent can range anywhere from $1,000 a month up to $6,000 depending on the location and size. And I'm being conservative about the high end. They do go higher for larger commercial spaces.

As I said, there are so many things about this piece that could be questioned, from the fact that the "gay ghetto" is disappearing as more gay men assimilate to the fact that many gay men/women have invested money in these gay meccas and the intention has always been to keep them as high end and upscale as possible. Take Provincetown, MA as an example. At one time you could go to P'town and spend a long week surrounded by gay people and it was relatively inexpensive. You could own property there, too. But that's all changed now and that began in the 1990's when wealthy gay investors starting renovating the entire town. For what you spend in P'town for one week now, you can probably travel to Europe and spend the same.

So there's a lot to this article that doesn't make total sense. And if gay places like WeHo have become so high end there is no more low rent housing available, it's because gay people with money to invest have been moving toward this for a long time. The same thing has been happening in Palm Springs.

In the wake of the U.S. Supreme Court’s likely decision in favor of nationwide marriage equality in June, people will be asking what the next frontier for our cause will be. I believe that new frontier will be the issue of rent, the issue of our gay housing crisis. This issue goes beyond legal rights or politics; it strikes at the heart of our culture, our identity, our soul. We must recognize and take action on this issue before it’s too late.

Frankly, I think the new frontier will be the issue of eliminating shame and removing the stigma of being gay so more gay people can come out. When I think of the future of LGBTI people, I don't think of old time hooded little outlets where gay people had to flock because they weren't safe anywhere else...or weren't welcome anywhere else. I think of gay people running for office, opening up businesses, and living ALL over the US just like everyone else. And that has nothing to do with gay culture and all to do with realizing total and complete equality.  It's not possible to have it both ways. If you want equality you have to be willing to be an equal in all respects. This is why it's actually illegal to advertise things like "All Gay Retirement Villages." That's called discrimination, because you can't turn away people who aren't gay.


You can read more here. The comments are fascinating because people get into a few things I noticed but I didn't even mention in my comments above.

Gay Man Who Never Orgasm-ed

This is almost as hard to believe as the article I linked to above, but I guess anything can happen.

There's a gay man who claims he's never had an orgasm. He's had sex, but never a real orgasm. I have a feeling there are a lot of literary agents who never had an orgasm, but I digress.

“My boyfriend has an orgasm almost every time we have sex, but I never do,” MissingOutOnTheBigO continues. “He thinks it might be because I am stressed from taking six classes this semester and have trouble winding down. Is there something wrong with me?”

Hold on..."almost every time we have sex." Does this mean the boyfriend doesn't orgasm all the time either? Not sure I get that. But you can read the rest here. There's a more clinical explanation of why this might happen I'm not qualified to comment on.

Broad City on Anal Intercourse

Speaking of orgasm and all things good, here's a link to an article about how the TV comedy show, Broad City, is dealing with the topic of anal intercourse as a topic of discussion.

Comedy Central’s Broad City is one of my favorite shows on TV if only because it’s a lot less cloying than Girls, but also because it’s genuinely hilarious. Last night, BFFs Ilana and Abbi tackled an issue near and dear to, well, someone’s heart: anal intercourse.

When Abbi finally gets a chance to hookup with her longtime crush — her hunky, bearish neighbor Jeremy — she’s surprised when he pulls out a dildo and strap-on, but being a modern cosmopolitan girl with not too many prospects, she’s game.

Here's a link, with photos that will make you smile. To be honest, I watched Broad City last night on demand and it's not something I would recommend as entertainment. I hated the characters and found the humor droll. But I could be wrong about that, and it is subjective.


The Rainbow Detective Agency




Tuesday, May 13, 2014

New Gay Show on NBC; Don't Tell Mama Closes; Giovanni's Room Saying So Long




New Gay Show on NBC

NBC has a new TV show coming out titled, The Night Shift, starring Luke MacFarlane and Brendon Fehr, where they play closeted gay lovers. Fehr will play the closeted ex-soldier who served in Afghanistan who is now a doctor in the US.

Even more interesting? His character's boyfriend is still fighting in Afghanistan and is on his way home--and he's played by openly gay Brothers & Sisters star Luke MacFarlane!

You can read more here.

It sounds like it should be interesting, especially because these two characters seem to be out of the ordinary with respect to the usual gay roles on TV. I'll watch. And to be honest I haven't watched anything on network TV in years. I watch news, films, cable series, and even game shows on TV...about two hours a day. But network TV doesn't even cross my radar anymore. Maybe this show will be as good as Nurse Jackie or Veep and set a new standard for network TV.

Don't Tell Mama Closes

Last summer I wrote a short post about a place in New York I've always loved, Don't Tell Mama. From my post.

I found a sense of comfort there I hadn't experienced anywhere else. Don't Tell Mama is a sort of cabaret, restaurant, and entertainment destination in the theater district in Manhattan where some big name stars can show up at any time. It was one of the first places where I ever saw gay people acting openly as gay people. I was there more than once when celebrities came in just to watch the shows. In fact, in my Bad Boy Billionaire book, The Actor Learning to Love, I based one of the scenes on a place very similar to Don't Tell Mama because one of the main characters is a pianist/cabaret singer.

Unfortunately, Don't Tell Mama in West Hollywood will be closing its doors and it wasn't even open a year.

Don’t Tell Mama took over the former O-Bar restaurant and piano bar space, which was empty since O-Bar closed in July of 2011.  Long time WeHo residents may also fondly remember this space housed the former Capones piano bar which had a decent run in the 1990s.

The piano Bar was named after the title song featured in the 1966 Broadway Musical “Cabaret.”  It was established in 1982 on Restaurant Row in the heart of the Theater District in NYC.  It’s been featured in numerous TV shows like “Friends” and “Saturday Night Live” and also boasts a long list of performers who went on to win an Emmy, Grammy, Tony, Oscar and the Pulitzer Price, according to their website, donttellmamanyc.com.

I'm not sure what this closure means for gay culture in a general sense. At one time a place like Don't Tell Mama in any gay venue like WEHO would have flourished. They are claiming they didn't get enough customers. At one time right here in New Hope, PA we had three flourishing gay bars and restaurants. All have closed but one, and that one is hanging on by a thread. And it's not that there aren't enough gay people in the area to support them.

You can read more here.

Giovanni's Room Closing

I know I posted about LGBTI Book Store, Giovanni's Room, Closing last week, but today Tony and I had an appointment in Philadelphia and I had to stop by just one last time in person to get a photo and to see it. In many ways, it's a gay cultural landmark, but here in the US we don't celebrate our pop culture settings the same way we do with the typical historic places. If George Washington didn't sleep there, no one cares.

Giovanni's Room, which is believed to be the nation's oldest surviving bookstore catering to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community, is set to close next month.

The entire neighborhood surrounding Giovanni's Room is probably more gay now than it has ever been. But even they couldn't manage to stay in business, much like Don't Tell Mama in WEHO.

Again, I think it's an interesting statement about gay culture and how things are changing so fast...and where things are headed.

You can read more here.

Palm Beach Stud by Ryan Field
 
 



His Only Choice by Ryan Field
 
 
 
 
 
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