Sunday, July 6, 2014

Penis Size and Gay Men; Joan Rivers Goes Too Far? More Gays Than Lesbians; Down the Basement by Ryan Field

Penis Size and Gay Men

Of course this is about penis size once again, and it's not really an article. But I often find that forums where people talk about topics like this can be far more honest and realistic than those "studies" we see mentioned in magazines and posts.

In this case the topic is how gay men feel about penis size. If you are of the sensitive variety, you've been warned this isn't what you'll find in any text book.

Why would anyone want a small one?\ \ I hate seeing a pencil dick or tiny little thing and thinking, yuck. Especially when you're expecting a good one.\ \ Aesthetic yes...just looking at one of those monsters gets my mouth a'waterin.


But to be perfectly honest, I don't think any of these things (the studies or the forums) are very accurate. Every single comment could be disputed. Deep down would most people be willing to admit, openly, they would prefer a small penis over a large one? I'm not talking about those with specific preferences. I'm talking about the millions out there on Grindr and social networks and porn sites. 


You can read more here. None of the opinions on this link reflect my personal opinions. 


Joan Rivers Goes Too Far?

Update: Link to Fredricka Whitfield's Facebook page where people have been leaving comments about Whitfield's interview with Rivers. It's interesting because most seem to be one-sided.


Update 2: Evidently, Joan Rivers used the "tranny" word, which I've posted about many times before. This wasn't in the original link or I would have mentioned it. I don't use the T word, but many still do. They feel it's part of their culture. But I still don't think referring to anyone as gay or trans should be considered a slur and I think we should all rethink that. This isn't about Joan Rivers or Michelle Obama or even a word. This is about trans abuse, much of which seems to be coming from the LGBTI community.


Iconic performer, Joan Rivers, made headlines twice recently. She was promoting her new book with a snarky CNN reporter, Fredricka Whitfield, and stormed off the set in the middle of the interview, and then when she made interesting comments about the President and his wife.




I have some very strong opinions on this I'll post at the end.


CNN's Fredericka Whitfield goaded Rivers during an interview that was supposed to be about her new book with questions about how mean Rivers is on Fashion Police. 



When the anchor described the fashion critiques as “very mean in some ways,” the 81-year-old cut her off.

“It’s not mean, it’s not mean, it’s not mean,” she said. “I tell the truth.”

“I’m sure I say the same things that all your viewers say to their friends sitting next to them on the couch,” Rivers added.



 
“We’re one of the few shows that says ‘that’s an ugly dress.’ … These ladies make $28 million a picture. You really think that Nicki Minaj cares I didn’t like her dress?”

You can read more here about that.   Frankly, that PC attitude of all CNN reporters is why I haven't watched CNN since they gave Joy Behar her own TV show. I still won't watch CNN even though Behar's show was canceled for lack of ratings.

Even more interesting is this next piece about Rivers commenting on the President and his wife.

The comedian known for her lack of self-censoring recently officiated a same-sex wedding and was asked by a photographer if she believed the United States would ever see the first gay or female president. Her response was typical Rivers.



"We already have it with Obama, so let's just calm down," she said. "You know Michelle (Obama) is a trans."

This didn't sit well with many people. Here's my issue.


So Joan Rivers makes a comment about the President being gay and the First Lady being trans and people are getting upset? Does this mean there's something wrong with gay people and trans people? Is it a negative reflection on the Obamas to be compared to anyone in the LGBT community? I find it highly insulting as a gay man to think anyone would find these comments as negative. We already know that Joan Rivers has always been a huge supporter of the LGBTI community. I don't understand what motivated Rivers to make the comments. But comments like this should not be associated with shame or disrespect. There's nothing shameful or disrespectful about being gay or transgender, not even for the President and First Lady...unless, of course, you belong to the Westboro Baptist Church.  


There's more here. This article calls it a trans slur. Yes. Liberal Huff Po calls it a trans slur. And the only slur I find is that the article calls it a slur.

I think this is the kind of double standard from liberal media that bothers me the most. We'll support you, LGBTI people, but just don't call our President gay or trans. At least we know where we stand with the conservative media.

More Gays Than Lesbians

This is another one of those articles I always seem to think might be flawed. It's focused on how the average person in Britain knows more gay men than lesbians.

 Statistics show the average British person knows 5.5 gay men and 3.1 lesbian women. The poll only focused on these two aspects of the LGBTI community.

It gives more detail here. This part is even more interesting. The average LGBTI person knows 21.6 gay men and 10.3 lesbian women. Location plays a huge part, too.

I take none of these studies seriously because I would bet half of all gays, men and women, still aren't out of the closet.


Down the Basement
 
by Ryan Field
 
 
 
 



Amazon Review:


Ryan Field is top of the class when it comes to cross dressing and female attire erotica and this is one of his hottest. The sense of danger as Rush takes care of the drunken jocks who could suddenly discover his secret and beat him up is palpable as is the erotic tension. The situation is plausible and the 'surprise' ending is a nice touch.




2 comments:

G. A. Hauser said...

wow- hot topics, Ryan- as usual- i guess when i saw a clip of the Rivers' interview where she stormed off, i had my own pet peeve. people who compare fur to leather- leather is a byproduct of a meat industry, FOOD- what are we supposed to do with cow, pig and sheep skin? Throw it in the trash? That would be a terrible waste and sad that all of that animal was not put to good use. Do we eat mink? Perhaps Lynx bellies? Have we dined on chinchilla? Or maybe snacked on fox or wolf? I do not eat meat, and the argument over the difference between food animals over trapped or 'farmed for fur' creatures makes me sick. Animals dying for food, okay, animals dying for fashion? Go screw yourself. So, believe it or not, that pissed me off a lot more than any of the other rant Rivers made. Cow is not endangered. But wild cats are. (Just my two cents. This conversation always gets me in hot water) but screw it.

ryan field said...

I'm going to take this to another level. In my next book I get slightly into people who eat exotic meats. You'd be amazed at how there are no laws against this. I checked. It's interesting.

To be honest, I think Rivers did this to promote her book. This is the best way to get attention and it's all free :)